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You Have to Understand

Summary:

He’s my responsibility, now. You’re not my protege, Tim…You’re my equal. My closest ally. You’ll be okay.

But him…Tim, you know better than anyone that left on his own, he’s going to kill someone. Again.

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alternatively: in what world are adults encouraging a child to be an emotional crutch doing the right or necessary thing? in what world has Tim’s role with the Bats ever been anything but a mcfucking crime??

alternative alternatively: I use characters that have Never Communicated Ever as my little hand puppets, making them speak with direct words and violent metaphors :)

Notes:

okay, so. first. it was kinda fucked up for Tim to be Bruce’s emotional support child during his violent grief spiral. Alfred probably should’ve been like “I see…I will go find a Professional to help Master Bruce” (even if it was a lie)

it was kinda fucked up that when Dick realized Tim was right (that Bruce needed Help) and wasn’t just spouting bullshit, he didn’t go “okay, someone (An Adult Hero Preferably) has to stop Bruce from beating the shit out of everyone/trying to get himself killed” or “he Does need Help but he Still Doesn’t need Robin specifically.” he went “I can’t be Robin again…so maybe Tim IS what Bruce needs”.

(making Tim probably the only Robin that Dick REALLY Shouldn’t Have Taken Robin From. because Tim BEGGED Dick to do it. but Dick just “no. YOU do it.” so Tim did!)

I’m not saying Dick/Alfred had the capacity to help Bruce on their own, I’m just saying that maybe encouraging TIM to be Bruce’s new emotional crutch, Knowing how Bruce handled his last two Robins, wasn’t…Ideal. even while grieving, Dick/Alfred Had to know that they were sending Tim off to a Very Bad Time…

it was pretty fucked up for them to accept the help Tim was “offering” (literally Replacing Batman would’ve been better than Wanting Bruce to use a new child) but that’s not actually what I wanna talk about. because you know what I think is even More fucked up than Accepting help that was explicitly but Naively given?

Expecting It From Him.

“Tim should have supported Dick and not made everything harder on him.” no the fUck he shouldn’t have. and he’s never been Obligated to make Any Wayne’s Grief Easier. they could only Take what Tim OFFERED. “Tim abandoned Dick after everything Dick did for him.” and Tim was Bruce’s emotional support ROBIN. Tim was REMOVED as ROBIN.

Bruce’s birthday test planted a seed in Tim’s mind…he thought, without Bruce/Robin, no one from that world would be in his life anymore. including Dick. then when he “quit” Robin and got radio silence until he was personally in danger, he had Proof. if he wasn’t Robin or a Victim, he didn’t exist to them. from his POV, the moment he lost Robin to Damian wasn’t just “losing Robin” it was losing ties to everything and everyone else too

Dick said some pretty little words but also blatantly contradicted himself. how can Tim be an “equal” if you can END a significant part of his life without warning? how can he be Anyone’s ally before he’s even scraped up a new identity? how can he discover himself after Robin if he’s hanging around to Support Batman and Robin? (unless Dick Also chose Tim’s new identity without telling him…in which case. that might be even worse than expecting Tim to create a new identity while sitting next to the new Batman and Robin and listening to the new Robin rant about how useless Tim is)

maybe Dick Believed some of his words. but he certainly didn’t Act on them. Dick CHOSE not to get Tim’s input when making a huge fuckin decision about Tim’s life. Dick CHOSE to remove Tim from the equation when dealing with Damian, Expecting Tim to quietly go along with Whatever Dick Decided. but Tim was no longer under “obligation” to stick around to obey the Batman that Fired Him From Being Batman’s Support.

“Dick was under a lot of stress” so was everyone else! but Dick fucking DELUDED himself into believing Tim Would Be Okay, so you think Tim just Should Be Okay to give Dick “one less thing to worry about”? because that was totally within Tim’s control?? be fucking serious

Tim also didn’t rip Nightwing away. didn’t choose one of Dick’s Most Unapologetic Would-Be Murderers to wear the Nightwing suit without Dick’s input. or give a reason as FUCKING STUPID as “but without being Nightwing, He’ll Kill Someone Again”. but Dick did that to Tim. and you expect Tim to be Helpful and Convenient after that? you think Dick is Owed Tim’s Compliance after THAT?? because Dick said “you have to understand” so Tim Should understand??? what kind of fU—

“don’t be selfish, Tim. just support Dick, your struggling big brother who needs you, even tho he gave away your best means of supporting him and expected you to pull a new one from thin air. just Be Okay and Don’t Cause Him More Problems. just Be Patient as Damian assaults you, and Keep your Composure so Dick doesn’t have to Worry about you, and Get Over your Denial to Stop Hurting Everyone Else, and—”

it’s so fucked up. it’s so fucked up. why is that reasonable to demand of Tim, just because Dick Needed Help? Tim Also Needed Help. Tim had LESS support than Dick and MORE responsibility than Damian but that Doesn’t Fucking Matter. only that Dick/Damian both “NEEDED MORE” from Tim, who Should’ve Supported Them.

just admit you see Tim as nothing but a TOOL to be used by the REAL WAYNES and get out of my fucking house.

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Chapter 1

Summary:

yeah this is the second chapter but. the other two chapters both have Bruce Speaking Words, so who knows when/if they’ll get done tbh

anyway. enjoy Dick finally giving enough of a fuck to ask “WHY didn’t you help me” and being shaken to his core by Tim’s violent response (which Tim only described that way because he doesn’t think it’ll matter that he got hurt. he deadass thinks he could tell Dick “Jack making me quit Robin felt like being forced to cut off my own arm with a batarang :)” and not earn any comfort, because his pain Inherently Doesn’t Matter Anymore).

Tim doesn’t necessarily think Dick Stopped Loving Him, just that he’s no longer worth Dick’s effort (sometimes…people Love you…and also No Longer Waste Effort on you. it was bound to happen with Dick eventually. Tim just forgot)

 

gentle reminder: Dick having valid Emotions doesn’t Fix or Justify his Actions. he’s Going Thru It, but he’s still WRONG. he can have “good intentions” and still be WRONG. he can be Convinced something was “needed” and still be WRONG. no matter what Dick’s narration says, HE CHOSE WRONG. and Everyone, Not Just Tim, continues to pay the price for Dick’s choices.

Notes:

Tim may not sound angry right away, but I promise he is. as soon as he realizes the topic Dick wants to talk about, he’s immediately angry/frustrated but also just…Resigned/Exhausted. he is too fucking tired to Willingly express anger for himself, but it’s there. it’s just not worth wasting energy on because he knows that Dick “Did His Best”. because Dick always has the “best intentions”, which means Tim Can’t hold anything against him…or at least can’t Express it. (he is fucking BEGGING for dissociation to take him)

Tim has always been easier to hurt for the greater good…but he expected the bats to be better for future Robins. and he was Wrong.

he was Disappointed but not Entirely Surprised by this kind of bullshit from Bruce, but Dick had a history of doing better, which is why it’ll affect Tim so much more when he finds out. but either way, Dick/Bruce couldn’t admit to such a severe “mistake”. or ever regret who they “chose” as Robins…the girl that Bruce explicitly and repeatedly disapproved of being a vigilante at all, let alone working with her, and the entitled child that couldn’t yet follow orders, required extreme supervision, and was overall detrimental to an effective team dynamic.

Dick/Jason/Tim all had to be trained properly before becoming official. they had to prove their capabilities. Steph’s “probation” lasted less time than any of the previous three had trained, and Damian didn’t get trained as Dick’s partner AT ALL before being let out on the field. just based on that alone, Tim should be allowed to be more than pissed at Bruce and Dick for sending out Robins they barely even trained, considering how Tim was trained after Jason’s death.

Tim had to drag Batman’s legacy out of hell by being the Perfect Robin that catered to Bruce’s every need (not whim, but Need. he was “Needed”. not Wanted.) the logic of making Steph/Damian Robin is honestly even worse than Dick being fired for it being “too dangerous” only for Bruce to put a new kid in the cape that had Not been a bouncy acrobat that came with his agility pre-installed. at least Jason was trained seriously first.

Steph/Damian should’ve had to train longer before they were allowed out as Robin. civilians shouldn’t be sacrifices for the Robin’s training period. but Bruce/Dick purposely put Steph/Damian in the role Before they had proven themselves capable/reliable/Trustworthy, and way more people were killed than necessary (Steph got access to the plans that started war games because Bruce let her in just to set her up for failure and send her off, Damian made Dick split his attention and energy by constantly disobeying and using too much force and having no respect/trust.)

Bruce/Dick both failed to prioritize either the Robins OR the civilians because of personal feelings (Bruce trying to manipulate Tim into returning instead of just Training Steph Seriously, and Dick hoping he could save a traumatized child with nothing more than a costume and name he felt Entitled to). Steph/Damian should have developed their partnership with their Batman Before Hitting The Streets. Not On Them.

tbh I consider it…“Out Of Character” for both Bruce/Dick to have done that for Steph/Damian, specifically Because of Jason’s death and Tim’s following training. even if the next Robin Didn’t have to hold Bruce’s bat leash like Tim did, they still probably wouldn’t be allowed to just…go out before being Safe with their Batman. but unfortunately that’s what happened, so now I get to Vent about Batmen Making Bad Decisions, even if I don’t think they would have actually made those decisions. even if they’re stupid in their personal lives, they wouldn’t neglect the safety of the citizens or their Robin (…unless Violent Grieving Batman was the source of danger of course)

 

tl;dr
Tim IS still hurt by how Damian became Robin, but he knows his fEeLiNgS about that don’t actually matter (not enough to change things). it didn’t matter when Jason replaced Dick, so it Definitely won’t matter when Tim is replaced by Steph/Damian. but when he finds out what Dick really thought/did back then, he’s angry at how both Bruce And Dick didn’t protect or prepare their Robins after the Shit they put Tim through because of Jason’s Fucking Death.

Tim was under the impression that Dick could at least train Damian better than Bruce did Steph. and then he finds out he was wrong. and he can get much angrier on Damian’s behalf than he realized.

he’s not angry at his “brother”. he’s angry at Batman. and Tim is very experienced with telling Batman exactly what he’s done wrong.

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Chapter Text

Dick sat on a plain sofa, trying to shove down anxiety. He was not looking forward to reopening this conversation, but it had to be done. He had to know. He needed to hear Tim say it in plain words.

Tim slid a couple coasters off the coffee table, tossing them into a stack, before proceeding to—sit on the coffee table?

Did he not want to sit any closer? Dick deliberately chose the sofa to increase the chances of Tim sitting beside him, and instead his little brother perched on the edge of the table? Did that mean something? Or was it just Tim sitting weirdly as usual? Was he—

“So, what did you want to talk about?”

Fuck. Okay. Now or never.

“A couple months ago, when you said you understood why I—” Dick could literally see the light leaving Tim’s eyes. At least he knew they were mutually averse to this discussion. “What exactly did you understand?”

Tim took a slow breath. “I…understand that you…”

Trusted you as an equal? Needed you as an ally? Knew you were ready to grow? Wanted what was best for you?

“Can’t help me.” When Dick lurched forward, Tim just put both hands on Dick’s shoulders and eased him back. “It’s not forever, just…for now. While you’re busy,” he said with a gentle smile, like that didn’t make it worse. Like the idea of his little brother wistfully giving up on him didn’t feel like a knife slipping between his ribs. “You still have so much on your plate, you can’t worry about me too. That’s what I understand.”

Dick slowly shook his head. “My plate—What does th—Of course I worry about you!” I worried about you the entire time you were gone, I worry about you disappearing again when I’m not looking, I worry about—

“But you’re too busy to act,” Tim replied with a smothering air of finality. “And you need me to be okay…to help Batman.”

…What?

“Even if Batman isn’t Bruce…and even if I’m not Robin.” Tim’s gaze softened in some mockery of contentment. “That’s what I’m here for. I just…forgot for a while.”

If Tim could stop sounding so sincere, that would be really great.

“No…Tim—” You can’t seriously think—

“Can you look me in the eyes and say that you’re okay? That you don’t need support right now?” Tim asked. “It’s a lot of stress being Batman, I get it. You have higher priorities…but I’ll still be here afterwards. It’s not a big deal—”

“It is!” Dick snapped. But then his brother’s eyes subtly widened in genuine confusion, and the spark of anger disappeared as quickly as it ignited. That wasn’t an argument Dick could win, not yet. Not like this. “Just…ask me whatever you need to understand why I did the things I did.” You’ll trust your own deduction far more than my word.

Tim searched his face for…something. “Is making me ‘understand’ really that important? Is that what you need?”

The phrasing made Dick a little nauseous, but it wasn’t…wrong. “Yes.” I need you to know that I didn’t want to hurt you. That I knew you’d be okay. I need you to know that what I did—it’s trust, in your strength, I wasn’t—

“Okay. What did you want to happen after I walked into the cave?” Tim asked eventually. “If you could skip the confrontation and go straight to work, where did you want me to go?”

“Nowhere specific? I just…” I needed you. I need you. I can’t lose you. Not again. “I wanted you there with me.”

“As ‘support’?”

“Yes.”

“With what name?”

“You could make any name you wanted.” Become whoever you wanted…

“My first task was to make a new name and costume, then,” Tim said, subtly nodding. “Okay. Was I on a particular time limit, or just ‘as quickly as possible’?”

Furrowing his eyebrows, Dick said, “I mean…however long it took?”

“So you planned for me to be off the field for an undetermined length of time, doodling little costume designs and brainstorming new names,” Tim concluded.

“I—I guess, for a little while?”

“So I wasn’t going to be anyone’s ally, let alone yours.”

Oh.

“Of course you were—I mean, we always worked well together, we had each other’s backs, we…”

“Yes, I remember,” Tim replied evenly. “And I wanted to support you the way I always did…I would have let you stand on my shoulders, if you needed that. I was prepared to do anything for you.”

“Then why didn’t you?” Dick could barely refrain from begging. They were supposed to help each other.

“Because, well…back then, I felt like…hm.” Tim tilted his head and got this uncomfortably distant look in his eyes. “Like you shattered me on the cave floor and tried to use my cracked rib cage as a stepping stool,” he breathed, “and then you wondered why I couldn’t lift you any higher.”

Icy clarity doused Dick from head to toe. This was worse than anything he had imagined.

“How could I help you from down there?” Tim looked up at the ceiling and blinked a little too rapidly. “I had to crawl off somewhere just to relearn how to stand.”

A bullet through the foot would have hurt less than this.

Dick knew it wouldn’t be easy, losing Robin never would be, but he didn’t want to shatter

Tim lowered his gaze and let out a little huff. “And Bruce wasn’t there, but he…It doesn’t matter anymore.” It does matter! What did Bruce do?! “I’m here now, and I can support you the way I should have. I didn’t even have to make a new name…Guess I should’ve just been Red Robin from the start.”

Fuck, say something, comfort him, fix this—

Dick nearly vibrated out of his skin in an effort not to reach for Tim again. “If I got you to stay…you wouldn’t have gathered all that evidence to find Bruce. It was the right decision.” You did good, you saved him, I’m proud of you. “You know that, right?”

Tim remained silent.

“Right?”

“That person in Metropolis,” Tim blatantly redirected, “did you actually expect that to help me?”

“Tim—”

“You didn’t just need me out of the way?”

“It—”

Tim waited.

And Dick relented, “Of course I didn’t want you ‘out of the way’.”

Or shattered

“Then why isn’t Damian in therapy?” Tim continued. “You said he was your ‘responsibility’. When exactly did you start taking responsibility for him?”

“…I knew it would be effective for you, but…” Robin was the only thing Damian wanted. He would never have accepted anything less. He needed to be Robin before Dick could even consider introducing any sort of therapy. “But Damian wouldn’t respond well to it,” he finished lamely, slumping his shoulders.

Tim just stared, unblinking and unimpressed. “So…what, I was curable crazy, but he’s just a lost cause? Is that your final answer?”

“Okay, first of all, you weren’t crazy, you were grieving—and you were right,” Dick corrected. You were grieving, and you were broken, and you were right. All at the same time. “Everyone knows that now.”

“Not so sure about that,” Tim muttered under his breath.

(…Dick would address that later.)

“And second, well, Damian just wasn’t ready for therapy,” Dick conceded. “He was still too volatile and, honestly, not that good at keeping his identity secret.” Even now, separating the Son of Batman from the Son of Bruce Wayne was a bit…

Tim’s first real emotions began to creep across his face. And they weren’t positive ones. Confusion bled into disbelief bled into fury bled into disgust. “He was…That makes it worse, actually. If you didn’t think he could keep a secret identity or was at risk of harming a therapist in a non-violent situation, then he shouldn’t have been out in costume! I thought you trusted him more than that, to be able to choose him to—” His voice grew louder until it cracked and cut off entirely. Then returned to his flat tone, emotions under lock and key. “Just to be perfectly clear…You think Damian is still ‘too volatile’ for therapy? That’s why he doesn’t have anything else?”

“Wh…What are you talking about? ‘Anything else’?”

Tim grasped Dick’s shoulder, maybe in desperation, maybe frustration. “Is Robin the only thing you’ve done for his ‘guidance’?”

And Dick didn’t know how to answer that. Sure, everything was tangentially relevant to Robin, but it wasn’t like that was all Damian did. He had started doing more in the cave, appreciating the background parts of being a Bat, he met some people on patrol which was…Robin but not Robin, and—

“…I gave you too much credit,” Tim said, dropping his hand. “And I’m deeply regretting that.”

No…nonono, this was not the way this was supposed to go, Tim had to understand, he always—Dick needed Tim to believe in him, in his choice. “I did my best!”

“Your ‘best’ wasn’t good enough.”

“I didn’t know I was gonna do it alone,” Dick protested. He knew he didn’t do great, okay, but he…did pretty good at least? Right? Good enough? If Tim was there like expected, then they…they would’ve…Dick didn’t know, because Tim wasn’t there! He left. “I said I needed you!”

Tim just offered a sickeningly smug Damian impression, baring his teeth as he sneered, “‘For what?’” It left Dick so shaken that he failed to respond before Tim scoffed and stood up. “That’s what I thought.”

“No, I—” Dick reached for Tim’s wrist. “Tim, come on, we can still—”

Tim allowed himself to be tethered by a desperate hand. He just stood there, looking down, observing Dick with clear disinterest. “Y’know…” he said hollowly, “I thought if it was just me getting hurt, it didn’t matter.”

Dick’s eyebrows pinched in confusion. “What?”

“I thought you had to be focusing on teaching him more important things than tolerating me, because I’m not even there…But you weren’t, were you?” Tim’s emotions came back online slowly, starting with a subtle twitch of his lips and a weak huff of a laugh. “I was so stupid…You had to believe I was wrong about Bruce for your own sanity—”

“And I’m sorry about—”

“—and I had to believe you were right about Damian for mine. But look where it got us.” Tim yanked his wrist away and dragged that hand through his hair, murmuring to himself. “If you just trusted me that Bruce was coming back, you wouldn’t have stuck Damian in that costume for some imaginary birthright. If I didn’t trust you about Damian’s imaginary progress, I would’ve intervened before it ever got this bad. But now we’re fucked and have an endless uphill battle ahead!”

Any offense at the commentary immediately succumbed to the relief that Tim included himself in the supposed “battle” coming up. Maybe we’re fucked, but we can fix it.

“This whole time, it’s been fucking months…Months…what the fuck…” Tim’s gaze eventually cleared up and focused on Dick, as if he had forgotten there was another person—and was not relieved with who he saw.

Dick tensed under the scrutiny.

“Just so you know, the only reason I’m not getting Damian out of here is because you’ve made sure he won’t trust anyone but the people who are failing him most.” Dick didn’t do that…did he? “He has to realize it himself.”

Tim leaned forward, just slightly, forcing Dick to tilt his head even further up. “You just better hope he figures it out before you all get him killed.”

Dick’s heart dropped into his stomach. “Tim! Don’t say that!” He shot to his feet, but somehow, his tiny brother still seemed to tower over him. Why was that?

“Are you seriously more bothered by my words than your actions?” Tim demanded. “You wrapped Robin’s cape around Damian like a fucking noose, and he’s not going to survive if you don’t change!

“This whole fucking time, you kept saying he’s been getting better, but he was doing it on his own! What were you doing for him?!”

“What—Where is this even coming from? You don’t even like Damian!” Wait, that’s not what I wanted to say—

“That doesn’t mean I want him unprepared or dead!” Tim shot back. “You were the first Robin, the best Robin, you know what it takes, and not only did you not make sure you could keep each other safe, but you fucking endangered other people, too!”

Why couldn’t Tim accept that Damian was getting better? There were…complications at the start, but that hardly ever happened anymore. “We’re not endangering anyone!”

“Really? How much progress has he made, then?” Tim asked. “If you want me to ‘understand’ why you ‘did the things you did’, then tell me what you’ve accomplished since making him Robin. Report exactly how he’s improved.”

Dick fumbled for the words. “I—He listens to me more. We…work well together, mostly. I trust him, and…”

“I’m asking about actual progress, not shit he should’ve been able to do before ever stepping outside!” Tim pressed. “Does anyone else trust him? Apart from you, can he actually work with anyone? Does he treat any allies with decency? Does he comfort victims?”

“He’s worked with other people!” And sometimes he ran off alone and met people. “Damian’s just—”

“A kid? Learning?” Tim threw his arms out in exasperation. “How long will this pre-Robin training last, Dick? What will happen in the meantime? What’s already happened that you hid from me?”

“Nothing—Nothing will happen!” Dick insisted. “Everything’s been fine, and Damian’s been getting better—”

“He can’t just be better. He has to actually be good.

“And he’s not.”

If Tim would just listen, if he just…stopped with this bias, if he—Damian was a good Robin, a good hero. What did Dick have to do to convince Tim? “He’s a good kid, okay, he’s improved so much…You just can’t see it—”

Tim let out an impatient huff. “Oh, I do see it—I’ve been seeing it this entire time, and it’s not fucking enough.”

“He’s still growing—”

“And you act like growing taller is the same as learning to climb higher,” Tim retorted. “I mean, fuck, he hasn’t even tried to jump, and you’re still trying to insist he’s made all this ‘progress’!

“Go ahead and praise him for surviving all you want, that’s a real accomplishment with this lifestyle, but maybe don’t fucking lie that he’s doing anything more.”

Dick didn’t know how to get through to Tim—to make him see what Dick saw. It wasn’t supposed to be like this.

“Do you seriously think he’s ‘too volatile’ for therapy with professionals, but perfectly safe for the civilians on the streets?” Tim asked incredulously. “Are you even listening to yourself? At least I acknowledge when I sound insane!”

Damian was just…He wanted to do what he wanted to do. And if he didn’t want to do something, Dick couldn’t force it. “It’s complicated, okay?! But as long as I trust him on the field, it’s fine.”

“You may have convinced yourself you trust him. But you can’t even trust him to keep a secret identity.

“And you are actively handicapping other heroes by handcuffing them to a baby demon until they build up a tolerance. Are their lives worth so little that you would risk whole teams for Damian’s forced socialization?”

“Heroes are perfectly capable of taking care of themselves,” Dick argued. “It’s not a risk to have him out there!”

“So they work better with him than without him? He improves their focus instead of being a distraction? He goes into high-pressure situations with a level head and doesn’t escalate them?” Tim widened his eyes innocently and asked, “He watches an ally’s back and isn’t tempted to stab it?”

God, Dick was so fucking tired of having to defend Damian to other people. Especially to Tim. “Why are you so determined to see the worst in him?!”

Without looking away, Tim replied, “Because I’ve never seen anything else.”

Dick opened his mouth to argue but—well, okay, yeah, Tim hadn’t seen anything else…but that didn’t mean Damian’s better side didn’t exist. And Tim antagonized Damian every chance he got, of course he didn’t see the good parts!

“He is nothing more than miserable to be around…I might even hate him sometimes,” Tim said, tone deceptively neutral—until tacking on, “if I had the energy to spare.”

(Dick winced on Damian’s behalf; the kid never showed it, but he really did care about Tim’s approval.)

“But I don’t blame him for that. I blame Bruce for not explaining the rules from the start,” Tim said, counting on his fingers. “I blame Alfred for prioritizing Bruce’s blood over ours.” A second finger. “And I blame you”—he pointed at Dick’s chest—“for forgetting what the fuck Robin was made for.”

Dick didn’t forget anything! “I know what Robin is, what it means.”

“Are you sure?” Tim asked. “Light. Hope. Love. Safety. Does Damian represent any of that? Does he show gentleness? Does he demonstrate mercy and second chances? Does he actually value human lives or just following The Rule?”

Maybe it hadn’t all come to the surface yet, but Dick saw what Damian could be, the good he wanted to do. “He’s…”

“You failed Damian. You failed Gotham. And you failed your past self. How does it feel to have abandoned everyone you once swore to protect, just to coddle an unqualified child that wanted Robin?”

“Robin was all Damian wanted!” Dick exclaimed. “There was nothing else I could do! I did my best with what I had!”

Tim stared at him, perhaps a little stunned. “…Fucking incredible. I finally understand. The reason you ‘did the things you did’ is that you weren’t fucking thinking at all.” He didn’t so much as shake an angry fist, but Dick honestly itched to start a physical fight…just to let Tim knock him out cold so he could stop hearing this.

What should Dick have done? What would Tim have done?

(…Maybe he should have asked.)

“I was self-centered enough to believe his lack of visible progress had something to do with me. I was prepared to keep out of sight, out of mind.”

Tim means…out of Damian’s sight, right? Tim wasn’t going to disappear again, right?

“But you were self-centered enough to think your mere presence and name would undo nine years of trauma. You have a lot of influence over people, but you can’t save him alone; you’re not a therapist. And you also can’t sacrifice other people for him. Not for Robin.

“Heroes don’t get that choice. After over a decade of surviving this life, I would’ve thought you knew that.”

Dick wasn’t sacrificing anyone…Damian saved people…

Maybe he was a little less efficient, but no one could be at top efficiency all the time! And maybe he left a few more casualties than the average Robin, but that was just because he started out in an all out war. And maybe his comforting could use some work, but that wasn’t all Robin did. And maybe…

“This is a waste of time,” Tim muttered, interrupting Dick’s spiral. “You can’t convince me, I can’t convince you, and we can’t get anywhere. I’ll j—”

“No, we can—” It couldn’t end here. Dick hadn’t made any progress at all. If I just shut up long enough to get through the disagreements on Damian, I’ll be able to gather more information on Tim. “Look, you clearly have more things to say, so just say them to me.” When met with judgmental silence, Dick just urged him, “Get it all out there!”

Whatever else there was, even if it hurt—There were so many things Dick never knew…things that Tim was willing to reveal right now, in this conversation. For the first time, maybe last time.

Tim took his time to weigh the pros and cons, gears rotating behind his calculating eyes, but eventually:

“How serious are you about that?”

“Completely,” Dick said.

“Can you step back for one fucking moment and look at Damian objectively?”

“Yes.” Dick could do that. He could.

“If I say something you don’t like, will you fight it?”

“…No.” Dick was an adult, he could listen to things he didn’t like.

“If I say I’m not angry, just disappointed, what will you do?”

“Apologize?” But Tim was definitely angry…

“If I say I think you’re killing Damian, what will you do?”

“Ask…how not to.” Dick didn’t believe it, though.

“If I say I don’t think you did your ‘best’, what will you do?”

“…Ask why?” But I did do my best!

“Don’t worry too much, you’ll know why. Come on.”

Tim walked away and Dick trailed after him like a duckling. Like Tim used to trail after Dick. “Where are we going?”

“Kitchen. I need water for this.”

Fuck.

I uhhhh couldn’t shut the fuck up. so I split the conversation in two parts. so look forward to that. eventually. (I also cut my quote rants off…but if anyone (for some reason) wants to watch me McFucking Lose It about certain lines of dialogue/narration, I can post that shit too)

Notes:

I don’t think Dick is the only one Responsible, I just think Dick is the only one with a Chance of understanding what he did (or didn’t do) and changing in the future. I don’t expect Anything could make Bruce/Alfred change. but Dick Might.

anyway. as much as Tim angst often centers around everyone leaving, I think “running away” (Temporarily) is better than staying and lashing out at people (Usually). it’s why I don’t Personally feel too upset about Tim leaving the team/Gotham. or Cass fleeing to China/Cassie with her cult thing/etc…those choices weren’t about hurting others, they left for Themselves. and they didn’t truly Take Support Away, as they were already unavailable.

but Dick/Damian/Alfred? Did take support from Tim…More Than Just Robin. Specifically BECAUSE Tim Could HANDLE Losing Things DAMIAN “NEEDED MORE” (SUPPORTING BOTH WAS AN OPTION!! BOTH!!! FUCK). and Steph was untrustworthy for obvious reasons and wasn’t owed jack Shit in another note, I mention Tim would hand out endless chances for the slightest remorse or a shitty promise to change. Steph feels no remorse and doesn’t intend to change. so I won’t force This Tim to give her more chances even tho canon Tim always inevitably does. his civilian friends were innocent but also incapable of providing the help Tim needed. Tim had no reason to believe that any other Bats wouldn’t also “side” with Dick (because he’s Dick Grayson) so why the Fuck would he stay when his last tie to the community was severed without so much as a heads-up. why is that reasonable to demand of Tim, when he is so low on Dick’s priorities that Dick didn’t even consider that his decision might make it harder or Impossible for Tim to give him the support he Expected.

why did Dick think that Tim would be fine after losing the last consistent part of his life to a child that tried to kill him. and still wanted to harm him. with such a Shit explanation.

I’ll Tell You Why. Dick (the writers, who decided Dick exists for Damian Only) Didn’t Think At All. He Didn’t Think Of The Implications Or Consequences Because He Had One Idea And Needed It To Happen. Damian as Robin. Damian as Robin. Damian as Robin.

it’s one thing to make shitty decisions under stress, but quite another to pretend they were good choices after the crisis is over. but Dick isn’t really the kind of character that can accept that, or let anyone else accept that. he has to have made the right decision…he needs everyone else to know he did the best thing. even if it’s a FUCKING LIE he tells himself to keep going. and for some reason, even readers are convinced.

meanwhile, I will be sitting here with my little bitter thoughts, saying that not only was Dick fucking Incorrect, but that both Tim AND Damian ended up fucking neglected and actively harmed by that decision. they were failed in the emergency, and continued to be failed afterward, and everyone thinks it’s just fine because Dick Grayson said it was Needed.

he and Alfred had the resources to do better, and simply Chose Not To. because the writers needed something to happen and didn’t care what it said about the characters.

so Tim “abandoned” Dick in his time of Need because he’s a selfish asshole, and it had Nothing to do with Dick/Alfred Letting Tim’s Home Become UNINHABITABLE. yeah. okay. makes sense. it’s Tim’s Job to Suck It Up and provide whatever THEY need, and any failure on Tim’s part is just Choosing To Make Things Harder On THEM, because he’s Always Capable of Supporting THEM. those are totally Normal and Reasonable things to say about Two ADULTS and the Emotional Support TEENAGER they’ve been Using For YEARS, and Not At All FUCKED UP.

 

if I wanted Tim to be Okay in any capacity, I would want him Gone. if I wanted any bat/bird to be even Moderately Okay, I would want them far away from Alfred and Bruce (and Fake Dick). I may view Tim as their…most “deliberate” victim (he was there with the Explicit Intention to be Used, not Cared For…the other kids were at least Supposed to be cared for), but that doesn’t mean I view any of the others as spoiled/favored every child Bruce took in has been harmed and/or neglected while in his custody. often for their “benefit”. Bruce “loves” them but his love is Hella Fucked Up. Tim just happens to be the one that half of the other kids use as a scapegoat or stress relief. and he’s a fixer, not a problem, so he Can’t need help.

(yes, Dick is Also a fixer, and he Doesn’t Deserve That, but Tim was fucking 13 when he started “Fixing” a Violent Grieving Bruce just because Dick/Alfred Didn’t Want To Do Anything. Dick and Tim are NOT THE SAME)