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  1. Zaliah on Chapter 2 Mon 20 Nov 2017 07:29AM UTC

    Hmm it’s mainly how soft your Little’s feel when I read them , They just want a snuggle and binky and they’re content. I also love how sweet all their interactions are with the caregivers ! Especially when they’re being sassy (Nit disrespectful ) and you can just FEEL how humorous and playful their relationship is. Also the way their caretakers handle them. There is no real irritation they’re genuinely happy to take care of this little and love them and just BE BLESSED (yes I said it) With these balls of cuteness . Like yeah I like fics where spanking is involved and the caretakers really stern and those are usually my M.O but when I read yours (usually before bed because tbh the fluff you produce leaves me in a pile of fluff like sis who needs tea and a warm blanket when Bam can warm my soul just as easily lol) I can just enjoy the fluffiness of everyone just being happy and content and sure there’s a few bumps in the road occasionally but there easily fixed . I’m rambling at this point I’m %99 sure I’m not making sense but it’s 2 am and I’m excited to express all the feels you give me BUT ... Long story short your writing has a nice flow and knows how to leave a reader content and relaxed and all around feeling WARM once their finished .

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    1. Bam4Me on Chapter 2 Mon 20 Nov 2017 07:58AM UTC

      Wow

      I just want you to know this is the most heartwarming comment I've ever gotten about my ageplay fics before, it's so sweet and perfect and I've saved the email in my folder and I will look at this whenever I feel upset this is so nice thank you.

      TBH, spankings make me very uncomfortable. See, I'm disabled. Too disabled to work, and my pain levels are off the charts sometimes. The idea of someone hitting me makes me want to die a little. I just cannot write spankings unless it's like just hinted at, or offscreen or something like that. I'm here for fluff, not punishment.

      And in terms of the way I write littles and caregivers: I have literally never met a little who hated being little before???? It confuses me to see all these fics with littles who hate being little. I understand being nervous about wanting to be YOUNGER than they are, or being jealous cause all their friends are a little bit bigger than them (coincidentally, all the other littles on Atlantis are a bit older than John, it's cute, but it's MAINLY because Ronon knows he'd be best in a baby headspace, so he encourages that, and when John plays with other littles from Earth they act like it's whatever, a little is a little is a little, the fact that John is younger than them isn't all that bad, but when they all first play with littles on the BDSM world, one of the older kids from their world tries to exclude John from their game because they're USED to having different ages and stuff like that and so to them it just makes sense to tell the baby he's too little to play their big kid game but all the other Earth littles get upset cause why exclude a little from the game??? Games is for all????) but anyways, it makes sense if they're overall nervous about being little, or if they're worried they might be TOO little and can't keep up with the big kids, but generally, I've never met a little who didn't love being little.

      Also, caregivers: why would you be a caregiver if you didn't think littles were the most adorable and sweet and perfect little creatures in the world???????????????? You wouldn't, that's what. So all the caregivers think that littles are sweet little sugar pies of happiness and goodness and it's amazing.

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      1. Zaliah on Chapter 2 Mon 20 Nov 2017 08:25AM UTC

        Aww I’m glad my comment made you feel that way! I usually suck at articulating how I feel in writing so im glad it came off the way I wanted it too. Honestly Same when it comes to the rest of your response . I’m not uncomfortable with spanking but I usually have to be in a certain mood to read it and it has to be well written . It irritates me when a Doms initial response to everything is to start swatting without using other options/talking with the little and there HAS to be well written aftercare . That’s one of the main reasons I read them is for the fluffy after care bits . ALSO SAME ASF @Not being sure why Little’s are ashamed to be little or a little with a younger headspace . Especially when the universe they live in is a BDSM universe like where does the shame come from? Wouldn’t this be normal for them? I can see them being embarrassed if there falling into a younger headspace when they’re supposed to be big but never ashamed . Also who CARES about age as long as everyone is having a good time playing and getting the proper the proper care for their age I can’t see the big deal behind it . How many times can I say same in one reply? THREE (I think) BECAUSE ONCE AGAIN SAME ASF . If you don’t enjoy being a caregiver then why force yourself it just lead to an unhappy , unfulfilled and toxic relationship . Or if you’re a caregiver and you notice that hmm maybe I’m not equipped to be the best caregiver for this age of little . Don’t force yourself to stay if you know for a fact you can’t adjust to caring for that type of little (Like when you’re reading a fic and they say the little is just a small babe 12-24 months yet the caregiver is punishing them as if they’re older with the capabilities of telling what right from wrong) just leave the relationship and allow yourself and the little in question to find someone better suited for both of youre needs .

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        1. Bam4Me on Chapter 2 Mon 20 Nov 2017 08:52AM UTC

          Wow

          Yesssssssssssssssss to all of these things!!! Like I said, John ends up being told by some of the littles from the BDSM world that he can't play because they're USED to different age groups. To them, a baby playing big kid games with running around and possibly falling over and jumping and stuff, to them, that's just something they're not used to, cause it's just gonna end in the baby crying cause they got a booboo?????? So when someone says John is too little to play, all the littles from Earth get offended cause they don't see it as age groups, they see it as a little is a little is a little, and all of them are littles so why can't John play?????? TBH, I can see the point from both sides.

          But yeah, whenever I read a BDSM world fic where the little is ashamed of being little (not even gonna cough here I'm looking at you Avengers fandom why the fuck are you hurting my son Tony Stark like this??????????) I sorta scream a little cause wtf they wouldn't be ashamed of it???????? That's basically like me being born AFAB and my parents being SOOOOOOOOOOOOO ashamed of me being a girl that they make me act like a man????????? Same thing with ABO. (Although my issues with ABO mainly run in the fact that Alpha/Omega is basically het, and also 99% of the fics are raaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaape, but whatever.) Like no, John is a little. Now that he's embraced the idea of being little, he's gonna go ALL OUT for this. Why be little if you hate it????? The reason that Ronon pushed him to be little so much in the first one isn't because he could tell that John had some natural impulse, it's because he could tell that John LIKED being small and coddled. Even if he was 100000000000% sure that John was little, he never would have pushed it if he saw that John hated it with his every being.

          Ugh, I just love ageplay so much okay, I could rant on about this stuff for hours. Littles are amazing and ageplay in fanfiction is far too often non-con, and I just want to give people this happy consensual non sexual experience.

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