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  1. DemigodseaMeg16 Sat 29 Aug 2020 10:30PM UTC

    I know what you meant with the Autism thing, on how your movement disorder masks the neurological area where Autism would be shown to be, and that’s why it’s so tricky. You didn’t compare it to brain damage, you never did. You are good!!! I know a bit more about psychology and the stuff with brain than the average teen around my age because of how many therapists and psychologists I’ve had that I just. I’ve become the go to person for advice with all my friends, relationship advice (I’ve only had one girlfriend guys y’all have had more experience than I do and I’m still not even sure if I felt romantic or friendship feelings for her, it started out as friendship then romantic so I’m-) and just advice in general and apparently it’s good advice that works? And they are like “wow Meggy you are so wise!” And I’m just thinking on how people come to that conclusion and then I’m like “wait a minute it’s BECAUSE OF ALL MY THERAPY BECAUSE OF SPECIAL NEEDS TRAUMA” because the stuff I say is what I wish would have happened to me, friend wise, and it works dang well. None of my friends see me as mature though so like that’s good because I am mature in some ways but I’m not...I’m truly a 10-13 year old child here in the body of a 17 year old thanks Autism~

    That’s a fun coincidence because I can heal others? Sorta? I think it’s a part of me being an energy user who can do raaki but it made me feel like Katara/Rapunzel fusion which I *love* but it’s like my healing factor can just be 0-100 on myself. I don’t know which one it will land on next. I...i think it’s a balance thing?

    I’m only out to my immediate family (first cousins) and of course their friends who are basically my cousins? I don’t see my extended family except on Christmases and usually fourth of July’s and sometimes in between (out of the first cousins I interact with our extended family the most!) and most of them are actual adults and adults who just got married and some have kids who are babies and toddlers (one is a few years behind me not a baby but not my age either, I believe preteen?) which is amazing cause I love babies and I’m good with them and they love and are attracted to me like I’m a magnet but you can’t really come out to them if you don’t see them that much and also babies.

    Do? Do I wanna hear that story??? And why?!??

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    1. GuardianKarenTerrier Mon 31 Aug 2020 12:11AM UTC

      i am not the advice person i am incredibly not the advice person i am too blunt and too bad at empathy (lotta family THOUGHT i was super empathic growing up but i was just quiet silence and empathy are... very different things); i have ended up trying desperately to instate a 'do not ask me questions unless you want me to answer them' rule

      all my advice typically boils down to 'i hear communication works' and at least once in little brothers case 'kick her out, leave all her shit on the lawn and change the locks' (she was manipulative and abusive and he SHOULD have done that)

      when i say immediate family i mean like, brothers, parents, thats it and technically i didnt come out to all of THEM, all my friends know tho. well, about some of it, i guess only cyrus knows about the nonbinary thing? and only him and cat for aromantic.

      that basically IS the story we played chicken and he had a car and i lost (we were in a driveway and i made the mistake of lettin myself get backed against another car, its fine, no one was injured, he actually didnt mean to hit me and stopped in plenty of time and was SUPER freaked out)

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      1. DemigodseaMeg16 Mon 31 Aug 2020 03:20AM UTC

        Even I know better to get advice from you because like my compliment stated you’d probably be like Trixx or Fluff giving advice in which most of the times don’t follow it unless you want to start a fire. But ya know, with love.

        Honestly that’s really why I expect from your family.

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        1. GuardianKarenTerrier Tue 01 Sep 2020 03:19AM UTC

          i mean, i can give pretty decent advice on how to start a fire, specifically

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          1. DemigodseaMeg16 Tue 01 Sep 2020 06:46AM UTC

            Thats...that’s fair actually l. I shall restate my previous statement: I shall only come to you for advice if it has to do with Plagg/kwami lore, feral instincts, and changelings.

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