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My ramblings on things

Chapter 16: I'm Fine

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On this wonderful morning, the 7th of December, I wrote "wonder why no one worries about me /s". I am just starting to unfog my brain from almost a week long depressive slump. I wish I could directly reach out to people about how I'm feeling but it's difficult. I'm glad I have some people who I know definitely care. I'm exaggerating in this one, I know people care it's just my brain convincing me no one does unless their actions show it, with no room for questioning ulterior motives. It's something I've been working on for a couple of years and I'm better at shutting my brain up than I used to be at least

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I'm not very honest with myself.
Or anyone else, I don't think.
I'm always fine.

And if I'm not fine it's a bad day.
If it's multiple days then it's unfixable,
And my burden not yours.
My natural instinct is to bellitle my feelings,
so that I can hide and rot away in my room,
and no one else needs to care.
Then I'm surprised 
When my friends don't really reach out?
I can't expect them to do what I can't.
I'm indecisive on how I actually feel,
How can I expect them to know?

That's the catch there.
How do I feel, about how I feel.
Is this normal?
The burnout,
The constant stress from work,
The eating half a meal a day,
The waking up at 3 but getting up at the other 3.
It's just uni living right?
That can't be a glaring red flag,
Some type of signal,
Because I'm fine. 

If anything it's a white flag.
Because I should care.
I should reach out.
But I can't? 
I'm compelled to silence.
 
Because I know enough people who struggle more.
If I'm their rock then I can't seem to have 
Cracked foundations.
There are some things I have to be,
And some things I can't be.
I have to be fine.

Because I'm losing my sense of self.
I barely feel like a person anyway, 
so what's the point? 
I'm not worth it anyway.
To you I might just be text on a screen,
And I find that oddly comforting.
But I feel like I shouldn't.

Because I'm losing my sense of people.
Which is a weird sentence.
It's like no one feels like a person to me.
My friends all have lives, hopes and dreams,
I know they do.
Consciously I do.
But my brain can't fully register that
We all have our own lives.
People actually do things.
Hang out, make more friends, have a life,
And I just don't.
So my brain is hardwired to think 
That's true of everyone.
So how can I build relationships?
I'm too self centred,
perhaps too tired for empathy,
Sociopathic?
Probably something worse.

I'm losing my grip on reality.
Going the incorrect amount of insane.
I spend so long trapped in my room,
Glued to my phone,
Disconnected from everything.
I hear phantom voices,
Imagine whole conversations,
And somehow I convince myself 
That's fine?!
I must be a very good liar,
To myself and other people.

I can't wait for the winter holiday.
God knows I need it.
But I'm fine, really.